PLEASURE BLOG

Learning Sex Again at 40: From Addiction to Soulful Sexuality
An honest and powerful reflection on healing sex addiction and reclaiming intimacy as a gay man in his 40s. Gary Albert shares his journey from compulsive sexual behaviour and shame to embodied pleasure, queer connection and soulful sexuality.

How Sober Dancing Changed My Life: Gay Ecstatic Dance
Gary Albert shares his story of how sober dancing changed his life and the creation of Pleasure Medicine his sensuality workshop and Ecstatic Dance for gay men.

Gay Ecstatic Dance London: 7 Benefits of Embodied Movement
Discover the transformative power of Gay Ecstatic Dance in London. Explore 7 unique benefits of embodied movement for GBTQ+ men, from connection and confidence to healing and joy.

7 Sober Gay Events in London That Don’t Include Bars & Clubs
Looking for gay events in London that go beyond the bar and club scene? Explore a selection of 2025’s emerging wellness gatherings, dance workshops, book clubs, tantra circles and more for gay men in London.

Podcast Feature With ‘How To Date Men’ - Pleasure, Intimacy & Rewriting Our Queer Connection Code
Gary Albert joins the How To Date Men podcast to discuss queer intimacy, sex, embodiment, and the healing behind Pleasure Medicine.

Be The Gay You Want To See In The World: A Story of Coldness to Queer Connection
Gary Albert shares his story of how Pleasure Medicine came to be after an upsetting night out amongts other gay men.

From Nightclub Burnout to Embodied Joy: A Gay Man's Journey to Conscious Dance in London
Curious about Ecstatic Dance for gay men in london, or things like 5Rhythms and Movement Medicine. Read Simon’s story from gya clubbing to conscious dance…

Ecstatic Dance For Gay Men In London: Join The Movement
Every been curious about Ecstatic Dance for gay men? This introduction to what it is, what goes on and what you’ll get from it is a good starting place…