SEX LOVE & INTIMACY HEALING
A 3-Month Mastermind for GBTQ+ Men
Create the connection, communication, intimacy, sex and love you truly desire
Gay Men
Do You Want Something More?
Imagine this…
Instead of the same old cycle of swiping, messaging, pic swaps and ghosting, you knew how to create conversations that brought you closer to what you really want faster, deeper and more authentically.
Rather than hook-ups that leave you feeling unsatisfied or disconnected, you could experience sex that feels intimate, passionate, horny and heart-opening all at once. What if you didn’t have to choose between hot and meaningful?
Instead of hiding your kinks and fantasies in the shadows, you brought them into the light discovering the healing wisdom they hold at their core. What if you could use them consciously, with other men, to explore, transform and connect more deeply with yourself and each other.
If you’ve felt trapped by narrow definitions of what gay relationships ‘should’ look like, imagine exploring the full spectrum of connection; intimate, sensual, kinky, romantic, platonic — all equally valid, all sacred.
And rather than guessing how to express your truth, you learned to communicate in ways that are honest, vulnerable and deeply embodied creating trust, surrender and deeper love whether your relationship is sexual, open, poly or monogamous.
Welcome To The
SEX LOVE & INTIMACY HEALING PROGRAM
A Group Mastermind
I hear you. I’ve been where you’re at! TRUST ME!
In a gay world where surface-level talk, emotional avoidance and constant distraction are normal, love and intimacy can start to feel impossible.
That’s why I created this 3-month healing program: a space to slow down, to go deeper and to reconnect to your truth.
Inside this mastermind, you’ll be guided to uncover what’s been blocking your capacity for love, intimacy and deeper more authentic sexual pleasure. And you’ll finally embody the confident, connected, erotic version of yourself that’s been waiting to come online.
A place to truly heal, together…
What Is It?
A 6-month live program on Zoom with GBTQ+ men from all over the world. Men ready to show up as their real selves and build the kind of connections they’ve always longed for.
Through group sessions, guided healing practices, self-exploration and deep connected conversation, you’ll learn new skills to take into your relationships, dating life and erotic world — whether that’s:
💞 Finding or deepening a loving relationship
🔥 Creating cosmic, transcendent sex with partners
💬 Learning how to communicate honestly and connect authentically
🪞 Exploring your erotic nature with safety, curiosity and power
It’s about re-educating — or as I call it, re-edu-GAY-ting — ourselves in what love and intimacy truly mean and how to cultivate it.
This is where we practice the art of being real, raw and relational. Where you learn to open your heart, embody your truth, and experience the kind of intimacy that changes everything.
PHASE 1
Theme: Understanding your patterns and reclaiming safety.
We start by creating a safe, grounded foundation.
You’ll uncover the core stories, beliefs and experiences that shaped the way you love, desire and relate to other gay men.
We’ll explore how shame, fear, trauma and past relationships have wired your nervous system and begin to gently release them through somatic awareness, guided practice and group connection.
You’ll learn:
How to identify your relational and sexual patterns.
How to self-regulate when intimacy feels triggering or overwhelming.
How to rebuild safety in your body so you can experience deeper pleasure.
Practices include:
Somatic awareness, learning conscious self-pleasure practices, body mapping, breathwork, inner child dialogues and conscious group sharing.
Outcome:
You’ll feel lighter, clearer and more connected to your erotic truth and able to see your patterns without shame.
How the Mastermind Works
This isn’t another self-help course or talky talky therapy thing.
It’s a guided, lived, embodied experience designed to help you rewire the way you do love, sex and intimacy.
The Mastermind takes place over 3-months, with live group sessions on Zoom.
Each week builds on the last creating a full arc from healing, to self-expression to actually living it your love, dating and sex life.
PHASE 2
Theme: Communicating your desires, speaking your truth and communicating vulnerability for deeper connection with yourself and others.
Once you’ve restored safety, we move into your new form of self-expression. This is where you learn to bring your authentic voice, needs and desires into the light.
You’ll practise emotional honesty, boundary setting and embodied communication.
This is where you begin to experiment with showing the world who you really are sensually, sexually and emotionally.
You’ll learn:
How to communicate what you want (and don’t want) without fear or guilt.
How to express desire in a way that feels powerful, grounded and kind.
How to navigate vulnerability and being open without oversharing or trauma dumping.
Practices include:
Authentic relating, roleplay and dialogue work, voice and body integration, erotic energy practices and self-expression rituals.
Outcome:
You’ll start to feel confident being seen in your truth.
Conversations that once scared you now feel natural and exciting resulting in deeper connection.
PHASE 3
Theme: Creating conscious connection in the real world.
Now we bring it all together.
You’ll learn how to apply your new awareness and skills to real-life dating, relationships and sex.
You’ll refine your relationship to pleasure, sex, connection and love in ways that are sustainable, adult and deeply nourishing.
You’ll learn:
How to build relationships that balance freedom and depth.
How to stay connected even in conflict or disconnection.
How to create an ongoing erotic and emotional practice for life.
Practices include:
Partner reflection work, intimacy mapping, future self embodiment, and integration circles.
Outcome:
Uou’ll leave with a renewed sense of self feeling more connected, confident and open-hearted in love, sex and intimacy.
PROGRAM FORMAT
12 x Weekly Live Group Sessions (90 minutes each)
Optional sharing circle each month for extra support
Integration practices between sessions
Private Telegram group for connection, accountability and community
Access to recordings if you can’t attend live
Who This Is For
GBTQ+ men ready to move from performance and pretending into presence and truth.
Men who want to attract love, sex and connection that actually matches their energy.
Anyone tired of surface-level sex and craving something more — more alive, more real, more human.
Your Invitation
This is your space to learn, heal and grow.
To explore what love and sex can be when they come from authenticity, not performance.
To meet other gay men walking the same path — with kindness, depth and courage.
If you’re ready to move from longing to living it — from patterns to power — then this is your time.
Hi, I’m Gary Albert…
For my entire adult life I struggled to find my place in the gay community. I never felt accepted by the tribe. And more importantly I found it hard to accept them.
Mostly, this has been down to feeling different. To being sensitive. To being someone who thinks and feels deeply. And these days I just don’t enjoy clubs, bars, booze and even tho I’m on the apps, they do my f’ing head in. And I have an allergy to surface level connection. This has created a lot of challenges in dating, sex and love. Added to that, my relationship goals do not necessarily always fit into the traditional mould.
I need more. I need something deeper, more honest, more raw and real. And I’ve struggled to find these qualities in the gay ‘community’.
The more gay men I speak to, I’m hearing that you all feel the same too. We are ready for something new, something different, something that aligns with who we really are.
So I decided to do something about it! They say ‘create the thing you want to see in the world’.
First came Pleasure Medicine, my connection workshop and ecstatic dance for gay men that happens every 2 weeks in East London.
And now, a big gay drum roll please…
The Love Sex & Intimacy Transformation Program